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- Epiphanytide: A Season of Light, Revelation, and Wonder
“Arise, shine, for your light has come…” – Isaiah 60:1 Even though we find ourselves in the heart of winter, the story of Jesus’ life continues to unfold, offering us hope , light , and anticipation . The twelve days of Christmas may have come to a close, but Epiphanytide is not the end; it’s a continuation. A new chapter in the celebration of Christ’s birth, and a season filled with wonder. While Christmas reveals God’s love through the birth of Jesus, Epiphanytide carries forward that revelation. It invites us to marvel at how God makes Himself known to us through His Son. From the visit of the Magi to the miracle at Cana, each moment in this season becomes an invitation to reflect on God’s presence and His unfolding plan of salvation. What Is Epiphanytide? The word Epiphany comes from the Greek epiphaneia , meaning manifestation or appearance . An epiphany reveals something’s true nature in a sudden and powerful way. And in this season, we pause to reflect on the manifestation of Christ’s divinity , the moments when Jesus is made known to the world as King, Savior, and the Light . During this season, the Church highlights: The Visit of the Magi God is revealed to the Gentiles through the Wise Men, who followed the star to worship the Christ Child. The Baptism of Jesus The Holy Trinity is revealed as the Father speaks, the Spirit descends, and the Son is named Beloved. The Wedding at Cana Jesus performs His first public miracle, revealing His divine glory. The Presentation in the Temple Simeon and Anna proclaim Jesus as the promised Messiah. Each of these moments gives us a glimpse of who Jesus is and how God’s love is made visible, not just in mystery, but in touchable, knowable ways. A Time to Rest and Reflect While the world rushes to get back to normal, Epiphanytide offers us a different rhythm , a slower pace, and space to meditate on these revelations . The Church calls us not to move on too quickly, but to linger in wonder. This sacred pause between the joy of Christmas and the preparation of Lent is a gift. Why Are There Two Ordinary Times? The season of Epiphany is also known as Ordinary Time. Many wonder why the Church calendar includes two seasons called Ordinary Time . These seasons aren’t “ordinary” in the sense of being plain or unremarkable. The name comes from ordinal , meaning “ordered”—a way of numbering the weeks between major feasts. Here’s how they work: First Ordinary Time (Epiphanytide) Comes between Christmas and Lent Focuses on the early ministry of Jesus: His baptism, the calling of the disciples, and His first miracles Second Ordinary Time Begins after Pentecost and continues until Advent Emphasizes Jesus’ teachings, parables, and the life of the Church Both seasons call us to grow in discipleship, to listen, and to live into our faith, not only in the high feasts but in the quieter, daily rhythm of life. Epiphanytide: Ordinary Time with a Purpose What sets Epiphanytide apart is its particular focus on how Christ is revealed : Revelation : God discloses Himself through Jesus, showing us His heart. Light : Christ shines as the Light of the World , driving out darkness. Reflection : A quiet season to reflect, listen, and receive before the penitential journey of Lent begins. Rather than moving on from Christmas joy, Epiphanytide invites us to carry it with us , to consider how Christ’s presence transforms even the ordinary. A Season of Wonder and Anticipation Epiphanytide is rich with meaning. It serves as a beautiful bridge between Christmas and Lent, a time to notice, to listen, to be present to the ways Christ still makes Himself known. It’s a season to slow down. To gather around and read stories of Jesus and how he has been revealed to us. To bless our homes. To reflect on the presence of God in our midst. As we walk through these weeks together, I’ll be sharing history, recipes, reflections, and traditions to help you savor the season at home. Let’s Celebrate Together How will you mark Epiphanytide in your home? Will you chalk your door, go for a swim, or share a King Cake with family? Let’s discover the beauty of this season together, one week at a time.
- Twelfth Night & Epiphany: The Last Feast of Christmas
“We have seen His star in the East and have come to worship Him.” – Matthew 2:2 As Christmas draws to a close, the Church invites us into one of her most ancient and joyful celebrations: Twelfth Night and the Feast of the Epiphany . While many pack up their decorations and return to routine, the liturgical calendar reminds us that the Christmas season is not yet over, there is one more feast, and it is a glorious one! The History of Twelfth Night The celebration of Twelfth Night and Epiphany predates even the celebration of Christmas Day. Originating in 3rd-century Egypt , these twelve nights, known as Smoke Nights , were filled with prayer, incense, and the blessing of homes and farms. Beginning on Christmas Eve, Christians would burn incense each evening, moving through their homes and barns in a ritual of protection and blessing. Today, only one of those nights remains: Twelfth Night , which begins at sundown on January 5 and ushers in the celebration of Epiphany on January 6. The Story of the Wise Men In Matthew 2 , we read the story of the Magi , wise men from the East who followed a mysterious and brilliant star in search of the newborn King. Their journey brought them first to Jerusalem and to the court of King Herod , where they inquired: “Where is He who has been born King of the Jews?” Disturbed by the news, Herod gathered his scribes, who confirmed that the Messiah was to be born in Bethlehem. Herod passed this information to the Magi, pretending he too wished to worship the child. Eventually, the star led the wise men to a humble home , where they found Jesus with Mary and Joseph. Overcome with joy, they fell down in worship and offered Him gifts of gold, frankincense, and myrrh , gifts fit for a King. What Is an Epiphany? An epiphany is a sudden revelation, a moment when something hidden is made known. For the Church, this moment is the great unveiling : the Christ Child is not only Savior of Israel but of the whole world. The Magi, Gentile outsiders, recognized and worshipped Him. In their visit, we see that God’s salvation through Jesus is meant for everyone . Global Traditions Although Twelfth Night and Epiphany are not as popular in the United States, this is a major feast in many cultures around the world, celebrated with processions, music, feasting, and acts of devotion. In Europe , costumed kings parade through the streets. In Spain and Latin America , Epiphany (Three Kings’ Day) is a time for gift-giving . In France , bakeries are filled with Galette des Rois , and in England , Twelfth Night Cakes are crowned with gold paper rings. Epiphany is the final great feast of the Christmas season, and in many ways, it is the most celebratory. The Blessing of the Home A cherished tradition for Epiphany is the blessing of the home . After the evening meal, the family follows the father or head of household room to room. One person carries burning incense to purify and bless each space. Another sprinkles holy water generously throughout the home. The rest of the family processes behind them, carrying a star on a stick and the Wise Men from the nativity scene , singing carols like “We Three Kings.” At the end of the procession, the Magi are placed around the manger , adoring the newborn King. Then, above the front door, the family writes in chalk: 20 + C + M + B + 26 These initials represent Caspar, Melchior, and Balthasar , the names of the Wise Men. They also stand for the Latin phrase: “Christus mansionem benedicat” — Christ, bless this house. Singing Door to Door In Austria and Germany , children known as Star Singers go from house to house dressed as the Magi. They carry decorative boxes representing the three gifts, sing carols, and collect offerings for the poor. A star atop a stick leads their procession, just as the star led the Magi. In England , the tradition of wassailing (caroling and sharing spiced ale or cider) was part of Twelfth Night festivities until the mid-20th century. A special drink called Lamb’s Wool , made with cider, roasted apples, and warm spices, was served as families wished one another good health for the coming year. Epiphany Presents In many cultures, it’s not Santa Claus, but the Three Kings who bring gifts. In the days leading up to Epiphany, children write letters to the Magi . On Epiphany Eve , they leave shoes filled with hay for the Wise Men’s animals. In the morning, they wake to find gifts and treats in their place. Epiphany Food Traditions Ukraine Families prepare a traditional meal of kutya (a sweet wheat berry soup), varenyky (dumplings), and borscht . Poland In communist times, Epiphany was nearly erased, but now cities like Warsaw and Krakow celebrate with parades and a pastry called szczodraki . If the harvest was good, these pastries are filled and rich. If the harvest was poor, they are small and plain. England A Twelfth Night Cake , often a fruitcake topped with a golden crown, is served. France In the north: Galette des Rois , a puff pastry filled with frangipane or chocolate. In the south: brioche cakes with candied fruits. Spain Families gather for a feast of tapas , roast lamb , and Rosca de Reyes , a sweet crown-shaped bread. Rosca de Reyes is a sweet bread shaped like a wreath, with candied fruit on top and a figurine of a baby Jesus baked inside. The person who finds the figurine is expected to host a party on Dia de la Candelaria or Candlemas which is celebrated on February 2nd. Mexico Rosca de Reyes is eaten with atole (a warm drink made from cornmeal) or hot chocolate. A tiny figurine of baby Jesus is baked into the bread. Whoever finds it must host a Candlemas (Feb 2) celebration. Ways to Celebrate at Home Read Matthew 2:1–12 as a family. Sing “We Three Kings” as you place your nativity wise men around the baby Jesus. Bless your home with chalk:Write 20 + C + M + B + 26 above your door to mark the new year and invoke Christ’s blessing. Bake a King Cake or Rosca de Reyes. Hide a dried bean or figurine inside.The person who finds it is crowned king or queen for the night and may have a special role at your Candlemas gathering. Let your children leave shoes by the door and fill them with small treats overnight. Arise, shine, for your light has come! the recipe - Rosca de Reyes (Wreath of the Kings) Cake 1/2 cup of warm water 1 envelope or 2 ¼ teaspoons of active yeast 4 cups all-purpose flour plus 2 or 3 tablespoons more for dusting ¾ cup of sugar 3 large eggs 3 egg yolks mixed with 4 tablespoons of milk ¼ teaspoon salt 2 tablespoons orange water or 1 1/2 tablespoons orange extract 1 ½ stick unsalted butter softened Freshly grated orange zest from one orange 1 plastic baby doll or a dried bean Sugared Oranges: Thinly sliced oranges 1/2 cup sugar Enough water to cover the orange slices Glaze: 1 egg beaten for glazing the bread 1 tablespoon whole milk or water White sugar to sprinkle on top of the bread 2 or 3 plastic baby dolls To make the sugared oranges, thinly slice oranges and then cut them in half. Place in a saucepan with water and sugar and bring to a boil. Reduce to a low boil and cook for 30 minutes. Drain the orange slices on a cookie rack and allow to cool. To make the bread, put your lukewarm water into a bowl, and sprinkle with yeast. Stir with a fork until yeast has dissolved, then let stand until foamy, 5 to 10 minutes. Stir in ½ cup of the flour, and cover the bowl with plastic wrap. Let stand in a warm place until doubled in bulk, about 25 minutes. In the meantime, mix flour, eggs, egg yolks, sugar, orange extract, orange zest, salt, and butter in a large bowl. Mix until crumbly. Add yeast mixture to the bowl and mix. It will be very sticky but manageable, add flour if needed. Place on a lightly floured surface and start kneading until you have a smooth dough. It will take about 15-20 minutes to get these results or 7 minutes in a stand mixer. DO NOT add too much flour to your working area, the texture should be very soft, sort of wet but manageable. If you add more flour than needed your bread will be dry. Once your dough is smooth and soft, place in a buttered bowl, and cover with buttered plastic wrap. The dough must be wet and elastic. Let dough stand in a warm place until doubled in volume, about 1 and ½ hours. If the dough doesn’t double in volume after this time let it rest longer. After the first resting period. Turn the dough out onto a lightly floured surface, and knead a few times, then shape it into a round cushion and make a hole in the middle to shape it into a large ring. Transfer to a greased-rimmed baking sheet, and loosely cover with buttered plastic wrap. Let rise in a warm place for 45 minutes or more until almost double in volume. Gather all your decorations and the egg wash. For the egg wash whisk the remaining egg with milk or water. Preheat oven for at least 20 minutes before baking at 375 degrees, with rack in the lower third. Brush the dough with the egg wash two times for a golden crust. Place the sugared orange slices around the ring, pressing them gently into the dough. Sprinkle with sugar and bake for 10 minutes. Reduce heat to 350 degrees and bake for 10 more minutes until bread is a nice golden brown color. Depending on your oven it will require more time. Transfer the bread to a wire rack to cool. After the bread has cooled insert the plastic baby doll or bean from the bottom of the bread. Do not forget to let your guests know that there is a baby toy or bean inside the bread. The bread can be stored in an airtight container for up to 3 days.
- Celebrating the Feast of the Holy Name of Jesus
“At the name of Jesus every knee should bow…” – Philippians 2:10 While the world rings in a new calendar year with parties and resolutions, the Church begins the year with something far deeper: the Feast of the Holy Name of Jesus . Celebrated on January 1, this feast commemorates the day Jesus was circumcised and officially given the name announced by the angel Gabriel, a name full of promise, power, and salvation. In accordance with Jewish tradition, male infants were named and circumcised on the eighth day after birth. This rite, rooted in God’s covenant with Abraham, marked a child’s inclusion in the people of God. For Jesus, it was also the moment when Mary and Joseph gave Him the name foretold by the angel: “And when eight days were completed for the circumcision of the Child, His name was called Jesus, the name given by the angel before He was conceived in the womb.” — Luke 2:21 The name "Jesus," meaning “God saves,” reveals His pivotal role in human salvation. By giving Him this name, the world was reminded that the infant in the manger was no ordinary child but the Savior of all humanity. The Power of His Name The name of Jesus is more than a historical detail. It is central to Christian worship, prayer, and daily life. Through His name, we experience the power of salvation, healing, and reconciliation. Saint Paul writes beautifully of this in Philippians: “Therefore God exalted Him to the highest place and gave Him the name that is above every name, that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow... and every tongue confess that Jesus Christ is Lord, to the glory of God the Father.” — Philippians 2:9–11 To speak the name of Jesus is to proclaim His lordship and to honor the immeasurable gift of His presence in our lives. It is a name that unites heaven and earth, calling us to bow in humility and gratitude before the one who came to save us. How to Celebrate the Feast of the Holy Name of Jesus Here are some time-honored and joy-filled ways to mark this day, both in remembrance and celebration: Make God Cakes In Coventry, England , it was traditional for godparents to visit their godchildren on this day and bring God Cakes , small, triangular pastries filled with sweet mincemeat. The triangle shape honors the Holy Trinity. (Scroll to the end for a simple recipe!) Wear White In Brazil , Christians wear white on this day, symbolizing the forgiveness of sins, the purity of a new year, and new life in Christ. Wake Up Early In Switzerland , January 1 is also celebrated as Saint Sylvester’s Day . Children rise early to compete for the title of “earliest riser,” while the last one up is lovingly teased. Ring Bells and Yodel In Swiss regions, this day includes colorful festivals. Men dress up as Silvesterklaus , don elaborate costumes, ring large bells, and sing slow yodels as they walk from house to house, wishing neighbors a happy new year. Do the Devotion Ground your day in prayer and reflection with this simple, meaningful devotion. Devotion for the Day Light the Christ candle. Begin your devotion time with the following invitation to prayer: Leader: The Lord be with you. People: And also with you. Leader: Let us pray. Opening prayer: Eternal Father, you gave to your incarnate Son the holy name of Jesus to be the sign of our salvation: Plant in every heart, we pray, the love of him who is the Savior of the world, our Lord Jesus Christ; who lives and reigns with you and the Holy Spirit, one God, in glory everlasting. Amen . Read Luke 2:21 21 On the eighth day, when it was time to circumcise the child,he was named Jesus, the name the angel had given him before he was conceived. Read Philippians 2:9-11 9 Therefore God exalted him to the highest placeand gave him the name that is above every name, 10 that at the name of Jesus every knee should bow,in heaven and on earth and under the earth, 11 and every tongue acknowledge that Jesus Christ is Lord,to the glory of God the Father. Close with a prayer thanking God for his goodness and asking for his guidance and protection for you and all who are in any need or trouble. End your devotion by saying the Lord’s Prayer together. the recipe - Coventry God Cakes Shortcrust: 2 cups flour 1 tsp salt 1 Tbl. confectioner’s sugar 8 Tbsp cold butter, cut into pieces 1 egg, lightly beaten 1 Tbsp milk or water Filling: ¼ butter, room temperature ¼ cup sugar ¾ cup currants ¼ cup candied lemon peel, finely chopped Grated rind of ½ a lemon ¼ tsp nutmeg ½ tsp allspice Combine the flour and salt in a mixing bowl. If you wish, stir in the sugar. Using the tips of your fingers or two knives, work in the butter until the mixture resembles a coarse meal. Make a well and add the egg and milk. Mix briefly with a fork. Form the dough into a ball. Wrap it in plastic wrap and chill it in the refrigerator for at least ½ hour. Preheat the oven to 425 degrees. Butter 2 baking sheets. To make the filling: Cream the butter with the sugar until fluffy. Stir in the remaining ingredients, blending thoroughly. On a lightly floured surface, roll the dough out thin. Cut into four-inch squares. Reroll the scraps. Place 1 heaping teaspoon of filling near one corner of each square, leaving ½ inch of dough uncovered. Lightly moisten the edges of the pastry. Fold from corner to corner to make triangles. Seal the edges with your fingers, then with the tines of a fork. Place the cakes on the baking sheets and bake for 10 to 15 minutes or until golden brown.
- The Feast of the Holy Innocents
Also known as Childermas or the Children’s Mass On December 28th, the Church pauses in the midst of Christmas joy to remember a sobering moment in the Gospel story: the murder of the Holy Innocents, those young boys killed by order of King Herod in his desperate attempt to destroy the Christ Child. The Feast of the Holy Innocents has been observed by the Church since at least 485 AD. It’s a day to honor these first little martyrs of the Christian faith and to pray for children around the world who suffer violence, poverty, or displacement. The Story from Scripture In Matthew’s Gospel , we read that the Wise Men came to Jerusalem, seeking the “one who had been born king of the Jews.” When King Herod heard this, he was deeply troubled. Gathering the chief priests and scribes, he asked where the Messiah was to be born. Their answer: Bethlehem. Herod summoned the Wise Men privately, shared the location, and asked them to report back once they found the child, claiming that he, too, wished to go and worship. But the Wise Men, warned in a dream not to return, went home by another way. Realizing he had been outwitted, Herod was enraged. In an attempt to eliminate this newborn “king,” he ordered the slaughter of all male children aged two and under in Bethlehem and its surrounding region. The Church has long honored these little ones, called the Holy Innocents , as the first to shed their blood for Christ. The day is sometimes called Childermas or Children’s Mass , because in many traditions the Church blesses children in a special way on this day. Ways to Celebrate the Feast of the Holy Innocents Here are a few meaningful and historic ways to observe this feast in your home, rooted in both solemn remembrance and child-centered joy. Let the Children Rule In medieval monastery schools , it was traditional to elect a “boy bishop” or student ruler for the day. The chosen child got to lead prayers, make announcements, and decide what the community would eat or do. This tradition made its way into family homes as well. On this day, allow the youngest children in the household to “rule," deciding meals, choosing games or stories, and setting the pace of the day (within reason!). Play Gentle Pranks In Spain , Hispanic America , and the Philippines , December 28 is also a day for lighthearted mischief, like April Fool’s Day . The pranks, known as inocentadas , are meant to reflect the surprise and sorrow of Herod’s deceit. Victims of the pranks are called inocentes , and the only rule is this: no one is allowed to get angry. In Venezuela , the day is called Fiesta de Locos , “Feast of Fools”—a nod to the madness of Herod’s actions. For brave families, you can even try the tradition from Ibi, Spain , where people dress up and have a flour fight in the streets. If the weather’s not ideal, a small indoor version (with lots of towels) might bring joy to your little “innocents.” Listen to the Coventry Carol This hauntingly beautiful carol dates back to 16th-century Coventry, England , and was originally performed as part of a mystery play called The Pageant of the Shearmen and Tailors . The play dramatized the events of Matthew 2 , and the carol itself is a lullaby sung by grieving mothers to their doomed children. Pray for Children Who Suffer This feast is a powerful time to intercede for children , both in our own communities and around the world, who face illness, hunger, war, or abuse. It’s also an opportunity to reflect on how we can help the vulnerable in our daily lives. A Devotion for the Feast of the Holy Innocents Light your Christ candle and gather for a short time of prayer and reflection. Leader: The Lord be with you. People: And also with you. Leader: Let us pray. We remember today, O God, the murder of the holy innocents of Bethlehem by King Herod.Receive into your arms of mercy all innocent victims; and by your great might confuse all the designs of evil tyrants and establish your rule of justice, love, and peace; through Jesus Christ our Lord, who lives and reigns with you, in the unity of the Holy Spirit, one God, forever and ever. Amen. S cripture Reading: Matthew 2:13–18 13 After the wise men were gone, an angel of the Lord appeared to Joseph in a dream. “Get up! Flee to Egypt with the child and his mother,” the angel said. “Stay there until I tell you to return, because Herod is going to search for the child to kill him.” 14 That night Joseph left for Egypt with the child and Mary, his mother, 15 and they stayed there until Herod’s death. This fulfilled what the Lord had spoken through the prophet: “I called my Son out of Egypt.” 16 Herod was furious when he realized that the wise men had outwitted him. He sent soldiers to kill all the boys in and around Bethlehem who were two years old and under, based on the wise men’s report of the star’s first appearance. 17 Herod’s brutal action fulfilled what God had spoken through the prophet Jeremiah: 18 “A cry was heard in Ramah,weeping and great mourning.Rachel weeps for her children,refusing to be comforted,for they are dead.” Close your devotion with a prayer of thanksgiving and intercession: Thank God for His goodness. Ask for His protection over children around the world and for the courage to care for those in need. Then pray the Lord’s Prayer together to end your time.
- Celebrating the Feast of St. John
The Church celebrates the Feast of Saint John the Apostle on December 27th, just two days after Christmas. As the “beloved disciple,” John holds a special place in the story of Jesus and the life of the early Church. His life and ministry were marked by extraordinary closeness to Christ, a deep understanding of His love, and a lifetime of devotion to proclaiming the Gospel. This feast day invites us to reflect on John’s legacy of love and truth, and to celebrate it with rich Christian tradition. Who Was St. John? Saint John, son of Zebedee and brother of James, was a humble fisherman from Galilee. When Jesus walked along the Sea of Galilee, calling disciples to follow Him, John and James were mending their nets with their father. At Christ’s invitation, they left everything and followed Him (Mark 1:19–20). From then on, John became one of Jesus’ closest companions. Alongside Peter and James, he formed the inner circle of disciples and witnessed some of the most profound moments in the Gospels: The Raising of Jairus’ Daughter : John was present when Jesus restored Jairus’ daughter to life (Mark 5:37). The Transfiguration : On a high mountain, John saw Jesus transfigured in glory alongside Moses and Elijah (Matthew 17:1). The Agony in Gethsemane : On the night of His betrayal, Jesus brought John, James, and Peter with Him to pray and keep watch in the garden (Mark 14:33). John and James were called the “sons of thunder” (Mark 3:17), a nickname that reflected their zeal (and fiery tempers). At one point, they even suggested calling down fire from heaven on a Samaritan village that had rejected Jesus. Christ rebuked them with mercy instead (Luke 9:54–55). In Matthew 20, Salome, their mother, asked for her sons to have special places of honor in Jesus’ kingdom. Jesus asked if they could drink from his cup, and they affirmed that they could. Jesus prophesied they would drink from his cup, but the granting of positions wasn’t his decision. John’s most significant moment of devotion came at the cross. Of all the apostles, he was the only one present at Jesus’ crucifixion. There, Jesus entrusted His mother, Mary, to John’s care, saying, “Woman, behold your son,” and to John, “Behold your mother” (John 19:26-27). The Ministry of St. John After Jesus’ death and resurrection, John, along with the other disciples, was taught by Jesus, watched him ascend to the Father, then waited in the upper room for the baptism of the Holy Spirit. After Christ’s Ascension, John continued to lead in the early Church. He is traditionally considered the author of the Gospel of John , the three epistles of John , and the Book of Revelation . According to tradition, he traveled with Peter in Judea and later settled in Asia Minor, where he helped found the seven churches mentioned in Revelation. He was eventually exiled to the island of Patmos. Remarkably, John is the only apostle who was not martyred , though he suffered exile and persecution for the sake of the Gospel. His life testifies not only to deep theological insight but also to a tender, abiding love for Christ. In his first letter, he wrote: “God is love, and those who abide in love abide in God.” (1 John 4:16) Saint Jerome tells us that in his old age, whenever John was asked to preach, he would stand before the people and say simply: “Love one another. This is the Lord’s command.” What a powerful legacy. Ways to Celebrate Drink from the Saint John’s Cup. Legend has it that Saint John’s enemies presented him with a cup of poisoned wine. Before Saint John drank from the cup, he made the sign of the cross. Immediately, the cup split, the poisoned wine spilled out, and Saint John was saved. In memory of this event, people brought their house wine to the church, and the priest blessed it. That night, the family would gather for dinner, and everyone would be given a glass of the blessed wine. The father would begin the celebration by having everyone stand with their glass of wine. He would touch his glass to his wife’s glass, look her in the eye, and say, “I drink to you the love of Saint John.” The mother would then reply, “I thank you for the love of Saint John,” and they both would take a sip of wine. The mother would then turn to the oldest child and say, “I drink to you the love of Saint John.” The oldest child would then answer, “I thank you for the love of Saint John,” and they would both take a sip of wine. The oldest child then turned to the next oldest child, and the pattern was repeated until the youngest child faced the father, repeated the phrase, and closed the family circle. The remaining wine would be stored away and used when a family member was sick (1 Timothy 5:23) or a time of grand celebration. Also, if a family member was about to take a trip, a few drops of the blessed wine were added to each wine glass, and the whole family would drink “the love of Saint John” again. Immediately after the wedding ceremony, the newlywed couple also drank the love of Saint John with each other. Celebrate the day by making your own Saint John’s Wine and having your own Saint John’s Cup Ceremony. A Blessing For the St. John’s Wine Light the Christ candle. Begin your devotion time with the following invitation to prayer: Leader : Our help is in the name of the Lord. People : Who has made heaven and earth. Leader : The Lord be with you. All : And with your spirit. Leader : Let us pray. Lord, we pray that you would bless and consecrate this cup of wine, and every drink. We pray that all who believe in you and drink of this cup may be blessed and protected. Blessed John drank poison from the cup, and was in no way harmed. So, too, may all who this day drink from this cup in honor of Blessed John, be freed from every sickness and harm. People : Amen. Leader: Bless, O Lord, this wine which you have made. May it be a healthful refreshment to all who drink of it. And grant by the invocation of your holy name that whoever tastes of it may, by your generosity, receive health of both soul and body, through Christ our Lord. People: Amen. the recipe - St. John’s Wine 1 quart red wine 3 whole cloves 1/16 teaspoon ground cardamom 2 two-inch cinnamon sticks 1/2 teaspoon ground nutmeg 1/2 cup sugar Pour the wine into a large saucepan. Add the remaining ingredients. Boil for 5 minutes. Serve hot.
- The Feast of St. John: A Celebration of Love and Devotion
Happy Feast of St. John! St. John, the son of Zebedee and brother of James, holds a special place in the story of Jesus and the early Church. John and James were humble fishermen from Galilee who became two of Christ’s closest disciples. Often called “the beloved disciple,” John’s life and ministry were marked by extraordinary intimacy with Jesus, a deep understanding of His love, and a lifelong commitment to spreading the Gospel. On this feast day, we celebrate the legacy of St. John, reflecting on his remarkable journey of faith and the lessons his life offers us today. His feast invites us to honor his witness and embrace the rich traditions associated with his enduring legacy. Who Was St. John? At the beginning of his ministry, after being tempted in the wilderness, Jesus preached a message of repentance in Galilee. Walking along the Sea of Galilee shore, he called the brothers Peter and Andrew to follow him. They left their nets and followed. Jesus then encountered John and James, preparing their nets with their father Zebedee. He called them too, and they began following him (Mark 1:12-18). From that moment, John embarked on a journey that would include moments of great devotion and unparalleled closeness to Christ. Along with Peter and James, John was part of an inner circle of disciples who witnessed profound moments in Jesus’ ministry: The Raising of Jairus’ Daughter : John was present when Jesus restored Jairus’ daughter to life (Mark 5:37). The Transfiguration : On a high mountain, John saw Jesus transfigured in glory alongside Moses and Elijah (Matthew 17:1). The Agony in Gethsemane : On the night of His betrayal, Jesus brought John, James, and Peter with Him to pray and keep watch in the garden (Mark 14:33). Despite his closeness to Jesus, John wasn’t without his flaws. He and James were known as the “sons of thunder” (Mark 3:17), a nickname that reflected their fiery temperaments. In one memorable instance, they suggested calling down fire from heaven on a Samaritan village that refused to welcome Jesus, but He rebuked them for their rashness (Luke 9:54-55). In Matthew 20, Salome, their mother, asked for her sons to have special places of honor in Jesus’ kingdom. Jesus asked if they could drink from his cup, and they affirmed. Jesus prophesied they would drink from his cup, but the granting of positions wasn't his decision. John’s most significant moment of devotion came at the cross. Of all the apostles, he was the only one present at Jesus’ crucifixion. There, Jesus entrusted His mother, Mary, to John’s care, saying, “Woman, behold your son,” and to John, “Behold your mother” (John 19:26-27). The Ministry of St. John After Jesus’ death and resurrection, John, along with the other disciples, was taught by Jesus, watched him ascend to the Father, then waited in the upper room for the baptism of the Holy Spirit. Like all the other apostles, John spent the rest of his life sharing the Gospel and leading the early church. He is believed to be the writer of the gospel of John, the Letters of John, and the Book of Revelation. Legend has it that he traveled with Peter in Judea and then went on to Asia Minor, where he founded the seven churches mentioned in Revelation. Saint John faithfully preached the gospel for the rest of his life and was eventually exiled to the island of Patmos. He is the only disciple who did not suffer a martyr's fate. A central theme of Saint John’s ministry and writings is the love of Christ. He writes in 1 John that “God is love, and all who live in love live in God.” He always refers to himself as the “beloved disciple,” and Saint Jerome wrote that every time Saint John was asked to preach, he would stand before the crowd and say, “Love one another. This is the Lord's command.” What a profound and simple message! Ways to Celebrate the Feast of St. John Drink from the Saint John’s Cup. Legend has it that Saint John’s enemies presented him with a cup of poisoned wine. Before Saint John drank from the cup, he made the sign of the cross. Immediately, the cup split, the poisoned wine spilled out, and Saint John was saved. In memory of this event, people brought their house wine to the church, and the priest blessed it. That night, the family would gather for dinner, and everyone would be given a glass of the blessed wine. The father would begin the celebration by having everyone stand with their glass of wine. He would touch his glass to his wife’s glass, look her in the eye, and say, “I drink to you the love of Saint John.” The mother would then reply, “I thank you for the love of Saint John,” and they both would take a sip of wine. The mother would then turn to the oldest child and say, “I drink to you the love of Saint John.” The oldest child would then answer, "I thank you for the love of Saint John,” and they would both take a sip of wine. The oldest child then turned to the next oldest child, and the pattern was repeated until the youngest child faced the father, repeated the phrase, and closed the family circle. The remaining wine would be stored away and used when a family member was sick (1 Timothy 5:23) or a time of grand celebration. Also, if a family member was about to take a trip, a few drops of the blessed wine were added to each wine glass, and the whole family would drink “the love of Saint John” again. Immediately after the wedding ceremony, the newlywed couple also drank the love of Saint John with each other. Celebrate the day by making your own Saint John’s Wine and having your own Saint John’s Cup Ceremony. A Blessing For the St. John’s Wine Light the Christ candle. Begin your devotion time with the following invitation to prayer: Leader : Our help is in the name of the Lord. People : Who has made heaven and earth. Leader : The Lord be with you. All : And with your spirit. Leader : Let us pray. Lord, we pray that you would bless and consecrate this cup of wine, and every drink. We pray that all who believe in you and drink of this cup may be blessed and protected. Blessed John drank poison from the cup, and was in no way harmed. So, too, may all who this day drink from this cup in honor of Blessed John, be freed from every sickness and harm. People : Amen. Leader: Bless, O Lord, this wine which you have made. May it be a healthful refreshment to all who drink of it. And grant by the invocation of your holy name that whoever tastes of it may, by your generosity, receive health of both soul and body, through Christ our Lord. People: Amen. the recipe -
- Happy St. John's Day!
Today is St. John’s Day! St. John was a simple fisherman from Galilee. Along with his brother James, John became a faithful disciple of Christ. He is the only one among the Apostles who was at the cross when Jesus died. While at the cross, he was asked by Jesus to take care of Mary. He is believed to be the writer of the gospel of John, the letters of John, and the book of Revelation. Legend has it that he traveled with Peter in Judea and then went on to Asia Minor where he founded the seven churches which are mentioned in Revelation. For the rest of his life, St. John faithfully preached the gospel and was eventually exiled to the isle of Patmos. He is the only disciple who did not suffer a martyr's fate. A great theme surrounding St. John’s ministry and his writings is the love of Christ. St. John writes in 1 John that “God is love, and all who live in love live in God.” He always refers to himself as the “beloved disciple” and St. Jerome wrote that every time St. John was asked to preach he would stand before the crowd and say, "Love one another. This is the Lord's command.” What a profound and simple message! In keeping with this theme of love, the day is celebrated with the St. John’s Cup. Legend is that once, at a feast, St. John’s enemies presented him with a cup of poisoned wine. Before St. John drank from the cup, he made the sign of the cross. Immediately, the cup split and the poisoned wine spilled out and St. John was saved. In memory of this event, we have the tradition of the St. John’s Cup. On this day, people would bring their house wine to the church and the priest would bless it. That night, the family would gather for the main meal and everyone would be given a glass of the blessed wine. The father would begin the celebration by having everyone stand with their glass of wine. He would touch his glass to his wife’s glass, look her in the eye and say, “I drink to you the love of St. John.” The mother would then reply, "I thank you for the love of St. John" and they both would take a sip of wine. The mother would then turn to the oldest child, and say, “I drink to you the love of St. John.” The oldest child would then answer, "I thank you for the love of St. John" and they would both take a sip of wine. The oldest child then turned to the next oldest child and the pattern was repeated until the youngest child faced the father, repeated the phrase, and the family circle was closed. The remaining wine would be stored away and used when a family member was sick (1 Timothy 5:23) or a time of grand celebration. Also, if a family member was about to take a trip, a few drops of the blessed wine were added to each wine glass and the whole family would drink again "the love of St. John.” Immediately after a wedding ceremony, the newlywed couple also drank to each other the love of St. John. Celebrate the day by making your own St. John’s Wine and having your own The Cup of St. John Ceremony. Devotion for St. John’s Day and a Blessing of the Wine Light a candle and begin your devotion time with the following invitation to prayer: Leader: Our help is in the name of the Lord. All: Who has made heaven and earth. Leader: The Lord be with you. All: And also with you. Leader : Let us pray. Lord, we pray that you would bless and consecrate this cup of wine, and every drink. We pray that all who believe in You and drink of this cup may be blessed and protected. Blessed John drank poison from the cup and was in no way harmed. So, too, may all who this day drink from this cup in honor of Blessed John, be freed from every sickness and harm. All: Amen. Leader: Bless, O Lord, this wine which You have made. May it be a healthful refreshment to all who drink of it. And grant by the invocation of Your holy name that whoever tastes of it may, by Your generosity receive health of both soul and body, through Christ our Lord. All: Amen Read Revelation 21:1-5 “Then I saw a new heaven and a new earth, for the first heaven and the first earth had passed away, and there was no longer any sea. I saw the Holy City, the new Jerusalem, coming down out of heaven from God, prepared as a bride beautifully dressed for her husband. And I heard a loud voice from the throne saying, “Look! God’s dwelling place is now among the people, and he will dwell with them. They will be his people, and God himself will be with them and be their God. ‘He will wipe every tear from their eyes. There will be no more death or mourning or crying or pain, for the old order of things has passed away.” He who was seated on the throne said, “I am making everything new!” Then he said, “Write this down, for these words are trustworthy and true.” Close with a prayer thanking God for his goodness and asking for his guidance and protection for you and all who are in any need or trouble. End your devotion by saying the Lord’s Prayer together. St. John's Wine 1 quart red wine 3 whole cloves 1/16 teaspoon ground cardamom 2 two-inch cinnamon sticks 1/2 teaspoon ground nutmeg 1/2 cup sugar Pour the wine into a large saucepan. Add the remaining ingredients. Boil for 5 minutes (at this point the alcohol will be pretty much evaporated). Serve hot.
- Celebrating the Feast of St. Stephen
On December 26th, the Church celebrates the Feast of Saint Stephen , the very first martyr, the protomartyr , who gave his life out of love for Jesus. You can read Saint Stephen’s story in the Book of Acts . He was chosen by the apostles to care for the poor in the early Christian community, allowing the apostles to focus on preaching and teaching the Word of God. Scripture and tradition tell us that Stephen was full of grace and power , doing great wonders and signs among the people (Acts 6:8). But his witness to Christ came at a cost. One day, while preaching the Gospel, Stephen was seized by a mob who accused him of blasphemy. He was dragged outside the city and stoned to death. As he died, Stephen prayed for his executioners, echoing the words of Jesus: “Lord, do not hold this sin against them” (Acts 7:60). Because Stephen was the first to die for Christ, the Church gives his feast day a place of special honor— immediately following the joyful celebration of Christ’s birth . Ways to Celebrate the Feast of Saint Stephen If you’re easing out of Christmas Day and wondering how to mark this beautiful feast, here are some simple and meaningful ways, many rooted in centuries-old traditions from across the Christian world. Read the Story of St. Stephen Read the account of St. Stephen found in Acts 6:8-15, 7:54-60. Relax and Rejoice In many countries, Saint Stephen’s Day is a public holiday. It’s a time to visit with family and friends, go for a long walk, or simply rest. In Italy, they play board games and cards; in Poland, they jump into an icy body of water; and in Australia, they go to the beach to swim. Give Alms Since Stephen’s ministry was rooted in care for the poor, this day became a traditional time to distribute the alms collected during Advent . In England , small gifts of money, called “boxes,” were given to those who had provided services during the year. That’s how Boxing Day got its name. In Germany and Holland , children would save coins throughout Advent in pig-shaped earthenware containers, breaking them open on this day to give the money to the poor. (Yes, that’s where the tradition of the piggy bank comes from!) Throw Rice (Yes, Really) In Poland , it’s traditional to “bless” your friends by throwing rice, oats, or walnuts at them. This playful custom is a symbolic nod to the stoning of the saint. Make Saint Stephen’s Horseshoes Although the connection is a bit unclear, Saint Stephen is also the patron saint of horses . In parts of Eastern Europe, bread is baked in the shape of horseshoes on this day. Eat Leftovers! In England , the festive dish is Bubble and Squeak , a roasted vegetable dish made from Christmas leftovers, served with Mulled Ale . (Recipe at the end) In Italy , December 26 is known as il giorno degli avanzi —“the day of the leftovers.” Families rework everything from Christmas Eve and Christmas Day feasts into something new. Have a leftover poultry carcass? Try making passatelli in brodo , a comforting broth with golden cheese and breadcrumb noodles, pressed through a sieve and served piping hot. Whether your family marks Saint Stephen’s Day with a long walk, a bowl of soup, or a small gift to someone in need, take a moment to reflect on his witness. His courage, compassion, and unwavering love for Christ are a powerful reminder that the joy of Christmas doesn’t fade after the 25th, it deepens. the recipe - Bubble and Squeak 1 pound brussels sprouts, washed and halved lengthwise 1 pound carrots, peeled and coarsely chopped 2 tablespoons olive oil, divided 4 pounds potatoes, peeled and cut into large chunks 8 tablespoons butter, divided 1 teaspoon white pepper plus more to taste 1 teaspoon salt plus more to taste 1 onion, coarsely chopped Preheat the oven to 400 degrees. In a roasting pan, add the Brussels sprouts and carrots, then drizzle with 1 tablespoon of olive oil. Roast until dark and caramelized, about 50 minutes, then set aside. As the vegetables roast, boil the potatoes. Add them to a pot and fill it with enough water to cover it by 1 inch; boil until tender, about 15 minutes. Strain and mash with 4 tablespoons of butter, white pepper, and salt; set aside. Warm a skillet or pan over medium heat, then add the remaining olive oil and butter and warm for 1 minute. Add the onion and sauté until softened, about 4 minutes, then add the potatoes and winter vegetables. Mash the vegetables together, then gently pat them into a thick pancake. Pan-fry until browned on the bottom, about 25 minutes, then flip and mash together. Pat flat and pan-fry again until brown and crispy, another 25 minutes, then mash once more. Season with salt and pepper to taste and serve. Mulled Ale 18 oz Christmas ale (or Altbier, bock lager, winter warmer ale) 2 1/2 tbsp dark brown sugar 4-6 cloves to taste 2 star anise 1 cinnamon stick 1/2 tsp ground nutmeg 6 pieces orange peel, thin top layer of skin only, without the bitter white layer 3 oz brandy, substitute with Cognac if you feel like splurging In a saucepan or small pot mix the ale (one and a half bottles, 18 oz total) with the brown sugar and nutmeg, add the cloves, star anise, cinnamon stick, and orange peel. Bring to a gentle simmer (do not allow to boil), stir for sugar to dissolve, and let simmer for 2-3 min to become well-infused with the spices. Remove from heat and add the brandy. Serve in mugs, garnished with an orange slice.
- Let the Light Linger: Celebrating the 12 Days of Christmas
Jesus, the Light of the World, has come, and everything has changed! While the world around us is quick to move on from Christmas Day, we are invited to linger. Because Christmas isn’t just a day, it’s a whole season, a sacred stretch of twelve days filled with beauty, joy, and quiet wonder. Christmastide, which spans from December 25 through January 6 (the Feast of Epiphany), is our chance to dwell in the miracle of the Incarnation. This is not just the remembrance of a birth long ago, it is the celebration of God’s living presence among us. Christ has come. Light has entered the world. And for twelve holy days, we are invited to let that truth reshape our homes and hearts. This is a season to celebrate richly and slowly. To mark time not with urgency but with music, feasting, candlelight, and acts of love. It’s a time to soak in the wonder that God took on flesh and made His dwelling among us, not just in history, but here and now. Christmastide is an invitation to go deeper with Christ, to make space for His presence, and to reflect His light to those around us. So as the world begins to put Christmas away, let us choose to remain. Let us sing the all the Christmas carols, light the candles, gather close, and live in the joy of Emmanuel. For my guidebook walking you through celebrating the 12 Days of Christmas in your home, click here . Ways to Celebrate the Twelve Days of Christmas If Advent was about watching and waiting, Christmastide is about rejoicing and remembering. These twelve days are an opportunity to keep the feast, each day with its own rhythms of joy and quiet reflection. Here are some beautiful ways to celebrate the season in your home: Leave Your Decorations Up Christmas Day is only the beginning! Keep your tree glowing, the wreath on your door, and your nativity set in place. Let your home reflect the ongoing joy of Christ’s birth for all twelve days. Light the Christ Candle Continue using your Advent wreath, but now with the white Christ candle lit at the center each evening. Let its glow remind you that the Light of the World has come and still dwells with us. Now Sing the Carols All through Advent, we’ve waited. Now, we sing. Turn up your favorite carol playlist, sing around the piano, or hum as you go about your day. Let the music of Christmas fill your home. (Here’s a favorite playlist to get you started!) Complete the Nativity Scene On Christmas Eve, we place Baby Jesus in the manger. And throughout Christmastide, the Wise Men begin their journey, slowly moving closer each day until they arrive on Twelfth Night, the Eve of Epiphany. Keep Feasting This is still a feast season! Bake your favorite cookies, pull out your best recipes, and continue to gather at the table with those you love. Bake something special, like our favorite sugar cookies , heavenly fudge , or lemon butter cookies , and enjoy the sweetness of the season. Sing “The Twelve Days of Christmas” Have fun with it! Sing a verse each night or all twelve in one go. It’s a playful and memorable way to keep the rhythm of the season alive. Give Generously Christmas is a season of giving, and Christmastide is a beautiful time to give to and serve others. Leave gifts for your delivery people, serve at a soup kitchen, or bring a meal to someone in need. Every act of kindness reflects the generosity of our King. Savor the Season Slow down. Take long walks. Read favorite Christmas stories aloud. Visit family and friends. Let these twelve days be filled with reflection, connection, and peace. Christmastide is a grace-filled season, an invitation to live with wonder, to celebrate the birth of Christ not only with our words but with the rhythm of our days. Don’t rush past the miracle. Let your home and your heart stay wide open to the joy and light of Christ, who has come to dwell with us. May your twelve days be full of music, light, and love. Christ is born! Glorify Him.
- How to Celebrate Christmastide or The Twelve Days of Christmas
Don't take down your decorations! Jesus, the Light of the World, has come into our lives! Christmas is not just a single day but a season—a time set aside to reflect on the miracle of the Incarnation and to rejoice in the hope it brings. For twelve glorious days, we are invited to celebrate Christmastide, immersing ourselves in the beauty, joy, and wonder of Christ’s birth. This is a season to live richly and fully, filling our homes with light, music, feasting, and love. It is a time to pause and consider the profound truth that God took on human flesh and dwelt among us, not just as a historical event but as a living reality. Christmas calls us to deepen our relationship with Jesus, to allow His presence to transform our hearts, and to share His love with others. As the world moves on from Christmas Day, quickly packing away decorations and returning to its usual pace, we, as Christians, remain in celebration. For twelve days, from Christmas to Epiphany, we sing carols, feast, visit loved ones, and marvel at the light of Christ breaking into the darkness of our lives and our world. For my guidebook walking you through celebrating the 12 Days of Christmas in your home, click here . Ways to Celebrate The season of Christmastide invites us to live richly and joyously for twelve holy days, fully embracing the joy of Christ’s birth. Here are some beautiful ways to celebrate: Don’t Take Down Your Holiday Decorations : Christmas Day is just the beginning of the season! Keep your Christmas tree, wreaths, and decorations up throughout Christmastide. Let the beauty of your holiday home remind you that the joy of Christ’s birth continues for twelve days. Light Your Advent Wreath with the Christ Candle : Continue lighting your Advent candles each evening, adding the Christ Candle in the center to symbolize Jesus, the Light of the World. Let this act center your family in prayer and gratitude for the miracle of Christmas. Finally Sing Christmas Carols! After waiting through Advent, now is the time to sing carols with joy! Whether you gather around the piano, sing as a family, or play your favorite carols on a playlist, let the music of Christmas fill your home. Here’s a beautiful playlist of Christmas carols to accompany your celebration! Add Baby Jesus to your Nativity Set: If you've been doing a progressive Nativity Scene where you slowly gather the figures according to the biblical story, add Baby Jesus to the scene and slowly move the Wise Men so that they arrive at Baby Jesus on Twelfth Night. Bake and Feast : Christmastide is a time for celebration! Bake your favorite Christmas desserts, make traditional treats, and share festive meals with loved ones. Feast in a way that reflects the abundant joy of the season. Sing the “12 Days of Christmas” : Have fun singing this beloved song, and use it to remind yourself and your family that the celebration of Christmas is ongoing. Give Generously : Show the love of Christ by serving the poor, sharing meals, or donating to those in need. Even small acts of kindness, like leaving extra rations for your animals, reflect the generosity of the season. Enjoy the Beauty of Christmas : Go on long walks, visit loved ones, and read your favorite Christmas books. Let this be a time of togetherness, reflection, and rest as you savor the meaning of the season. Christmastide is a gift, a season to show the importance of Christ’s birth by the way we live, celebrate, and give. Let your days be filled with joy, love, and light as you honor the miracle of Jesus coming into the world!
- Celebrating the Feast of St. Thomas
“My Lord and my God!” (John 20:28) As Christmas Day draws near, the Church offers us one final feast before the Nativity: the Feast of Saint Thomas the Apostle . Often remembered as “Doubting Thomas,” his story is far richer than that single moment. His life is one of honest questioning , faithful witness , and radical obedience to Christ’s call, leading him farther in distance than any other apostle. Who Was St. Thomas? St. Thomas was one of the twelve disciples chosen by Jesus. He walked with Christ, witnessed His miracles, heard His teachings, and stood in awe of the Resurrection. Tradition tells us that after Pentecost, Thomas became a great missionary, traveling farther than any other apostle, preaching the Gospel throughout the Persian Empire , India , and possibly even as far as China or Ethiopia . One remarkable tradition from South America tells of a holy man called Pai Thome who once lived among the people of Paraguay, carrying a wooden cross and preaching Christ. They claimed he came from far away, spoke of a powerful God, and left behind communities of believers. Many believe this wandering apostle was Thomas. St. Thomas in Scripture Thomas appears most vividly in the Gospel of John , and what we see is not just doubt, but devotion. In John 11 , when Jesus sets out to visit the dying Lazarus, and the disciples fear for His life, Thomas is the one who says : “Let us also go, that we may die with Him.” In John 14 , when Jesus tells the disciples He is going to prepare a place for them, it’s Thomas who asks: “Lord, we don’t know where You are going—how can we know the way?”And Jesus replies:“I am the Way, the Truth, and the Life…” And of course, in John 20 , when the risen Christ appears to the disciples, Thomas is not with them. “Unless I see the mark of the nails… I will not believe,” he says. But when Jesus appears again, He gently invites Thomas to see, to touch, and to believe. Thomas responds with one of the most profound declarations of faith in all of Scripture: “My Lord and my God!” The Missionary of the East Christian tradition holds that Thomas took the Gospel outside the Roman Empire , farther than any of the other apostles. He preached the Gospel across the Middle East , Persia , and ultimately to India , where he spent many years establishing churches and baptizing new believers. Even today, the vibrant St. Thomas Christians of Kerala in southern India trace their spiritual ancestry directly back to the apostle. He is honored there not only as a missionary, but as the patron saint of India . The Martyrdom of Thomas Thomas was eventually martyred in Mylapore (modern-day Chennai) in India, where he was speared to death for his bold preaching. He is often depicted in icons holding a spear, the instrument of his martyrdom. His tomb is believed to rest beneath the San Thome Basilica in Chennai, a beloved pilgrimage site for Christians around the world. Feast Day Traditions Around the World As the final feast before Christmas, St. Thomas’s Day has long been a day of preparation, baking, and giving . In England , the poor went “a Thomasing” —knocking on doors and receiving food or alms in honor of the apostle. In Austria , families bake Kletzenbrot , a rich bread with dried fruit, one large loaf for Christmas morning and smaller loaves for each family member. In Germany , people begin baking Stollen , the fruit-studded loaf folded like a swaddled baby, meant to symbolize the Christ Child. Other traditional treats include: Springerles and Lebkuchen in Germany (Lebkuchen meaning “Bread of Life”) Sugar cookies in the United States and England Gingerbread and glögg (mulled wine) in Sweden and Finland In Kerala, India , families gather for dishes like appam (rice pancakes), stew , and fish curries , in honor of St. Thomas’s enduring influence. Ways to Celebrate the Feast of St. Thomas Here are a few simple ways to observe this beautiful feast day as a family: Read John 20:24–29 Let your family reflect on Thomas’s honest faith, and his bold proclamation. Give to the Poor Follow the old English custom and find a way to serve others. Prepare a meal for someone, donate to a local charity, or give away warm clothes. Clean the House As the final day of Advent preparations, this is a wonderful time to finish your cleaning , wrap final gifts, and get your home ready for the feast to come. Enjoy Indian Food In honor of the St. Thomas Christians , try your hand at cooking an Indian meal! Serve chicken or vegetable curry with rice, or pick up naan and samosas from a local restaurant. Begin Your Christmas Baking This is the day many families start their baking! In our home, we make my mom Meredith’s iced sugar cookies , a favorite family tradition. They are buttery, soft, and perfect for decorating together. (If you’d like the recipe, it’s included below!) St. Thomas reminds us that faith often begins in questions, and that the love of Christ meets us there. As we enter these final days before Christmas, may we echo his words with our whole hearts: “My Lord and my God!” the recipe - Sugar Cookies 1 cup butter 1 1/2 cups sifted confectioner’s sugar 1 egg 1 teaspoon vanilla 1/2 teaspoon almond 2 1/2 cups flour 1 teaspoon soda 1 teaspoon cream of tartar food coloring Any edible decorations you want (sprinkles, red hots, silver balls) Cream the butter and sugar. Add the egg and extracts. Sift flour, soda, and cream of tartar together. Add to butter mixture. Wrap dough in plastic wrap and chill overnight. Roll out and cut into desired shapes. Bake in a 350-degree oven for 10 to 12 minutes. The icing consists of confectioner’s sugar mixed with teaspoons of half and half until the desired consistency is reached. To color the icing, add the food coloring of your choice.
- The O Antiphons: A Sacred Countdown to Christmas
On December 17, the Church begins a set of ancient prayers called the O Antiphons , and with them, the whole tone of Advent shifts. We are only eight days away from Christmas Day, and the sense of anticipation deepens. These final days are known as an Octave , eight days set apart in the Church calendar for special prayer and focus. Our Advent longing builds to a crescendo. The prayers of these days are full of urgency and hope, cries from the heart, not just for ourselves, but for the whole world: Come, Lord Jesus. Come and set the world to rights. All over the world, Christians lift their voices in unity, calling out for the Messiah to come. And one of the most beautiful ways the Church has done this for over 1,300 years is through the O Antiphons . What Are the O Antiphons? The O Antiphons are short, poetic prayers, each beginning with a title of Christ drawn from Scripture and the prophecies of Isaiah: O Wisdom, O Lord, O Root of Jesse , and so on. These were traditionally chanted during Evening Prayer (Vespers) in monasteries from December 17 through December 23 , each night featuring a different Antiphon. On December 24 , all the Antiphons were sung together, completing the Octave and ushering in the joy of Christmas. You likely already know the Antiphons in another form— “O Come, O Come, Emmanuel.” This beloved Advent hymn is simply the O Antiphons set to music. Each stanza corresponds to one of the Antiphons, and in the early Church, a new verse was added each night during this final week of Advent. Ways to Celebrate the O Antiphons at Home One lovely way to keep this tradition is to incorporate the O Antiphons into your daily family devotions . You can read or sing the antiphon for the day, then reflect on its meaning and close with prayer. In many monastic communities, it was also the custom to give a small treat or token after the chanting of each Antiphon, something simple to mark the day and increase the sense of joyful expectation. You can easily recreate this in your home with small themed treats each night that connect to the symbols of the Antiphons. To help you celebrate, I’ve included below: The Antiphon for each day Its scriptural title and reference Suggested symbols Simple, themed treat ideas (and ideas to make your own!) A lovely free PDF guide of the O Antiphons to hang on your fridge The O Antiphons by Day December 17 – O Wisdom (Isaiah 11:2) “O come, thou Wisdom from on high,who orderest all things mightily; to us the path of knowledge show, and teach us in her ways to go.” Symbols: Oil lamp, open book, dove Treat Ideas: Use a “brain food” like blueberries or dark chocolate. Make cookies shaped like books, or serve fig newtons decorated with icing to look like little books. December 18 – O Lord (Exodus 6:6) “O come, O come, thou Lord of might, who to thy tribes on Sinai’s height in ancient times didst give the law in cloud and majesty and awe.” Symbols: Burning bush, Ten Commandments Treat Ideas: Decorate graham crackers to look like tablets with Roman numerals I–X. Serve something spicy like salsa to represent the burning bush. December 19 – O Root of Jesse (Isaiah 11:1) “O come, thou Branch of Jesse’s tree, free them from Satan’s tyranny; that trust thy mighty power to save, and give them victory o’er the grave.” Symbols: Root with flowering stem, tree Treat Ideas: Serve root beer or make carrot cake or cupcakes with carrot toppers. December 20 – O Key of David (Isaiah 22:22) “O come, thou Key of David, come, and open wide our heavenly home; make safe the way that leads on high, and close the path to misery.” Symbols: Key, gate, lock Treat Ideas: In monastic tradition, the monk with the key to the wine cellar opened it this night. Serve sparkling juice or grape juice . Make key-shaped cookies . December 21 – O Dayspring (Isaiah 9:2) “O come, thou Dayspring from on high, and cheer us by thy drawing nigh; disperse the gloomy clouds of night, and death’s dark shadow put to flight.” Symbols: Sunrise, rays of light, the sun Treat Ideas: Serve oranges , orange sorbet , or anything citrus-based to reflect the sunrise. December 22 – O Desire of Nations (Jeremiah 10:7) “O come, Desire of Nations, bind in one the hearts of all mankind; bid thou our sad divisions cease, and be thyself our King of Peace.” Symbols: Crown, scepter, cornerstone Treat Ideas: Make crown-shaped cookies or bake a loaf cake like banana bread to resemble a cornerstone. December 23 – O Emmanuel (Isaiah 7:14) “O come, O come, Emmanuel, and ransom captive Israel, that mourns in lonely exile here until the Son of God appear.” Symbols: Manger, star Treat Ideas: Serve star-shaped cookies , homemade chai with star anise , or chocolates from a nativity-themed chocolate set . December 24 – Christmas Eve Sing all the verses of O Come, O Come Emmanuel as you complete the Octave and welcome the Christ Child. Symbols: Candle, poinsettia Treat Ideas: Serve flower- or candle-shaped cookies , or enjoy your evening treats by candlelight . Since it’s Christmas Eve, serve something extra special— chocolate-covered strawberries , sparkling juice , or a favorite family dessert. To help you celebrate the O Antiphons at home, I’ve created a printable family guide that includes each of the antiphons, the full verse from O Come, O Come, Emmanuel , traditional symbols, and simple treat ideas for every day from December 17–24. This is a beautiful way to draw your family into the rhythm of these final days of Advent—just one short prayer or song each night, paired with a small themed treat or visual cue. It’s simple enough for young children, but rich enough to nourish everyone in the room. Print it out and hang it on your fridge, tape it inside a cabinet, or tuck it into your prayer space. I hope it blesses your family as much as it has ours. Download the O Antiphons Family Guide HERE . May these final days of Advent draw your family deeper into the joyful expectation of Christmas. And may the ancient prayers of the Church be on your lips and in your home as you, too, cry out: O Come, O Come, Emmanuel.











